While it was misunderstood among the youth ... the symposium guests ... from the right, Dr. Ali Obaid, Dr. Ali Mahfouz, Dr. Amr Gad, then Hamad Al-Fahaila, guests of the seminar .. From the right, Dr. Ali Obaid, Dr. Ali Mahfouz, Dr. Amr Gad, then Hamad Al-Fahaila. Moderated the seminar: Hamad Al-Fahaila. The participants in the symposium, Dr. Amr Mumtaz Ahmed Gad is a consultant andrologist at the Armed Forces Hospital in Riyadh
Dr.. Ali Ahmed bin Mahfouz, consultant urologist at King Faisal Specialist Hospital in Riyadh
Dr.. Ali Ahmed Obaid, Consultant Urologist, Riyadh and Al-Kharj Hospital Program
It is very strange that we find those who are ignorant of their sexual culture, and it is even more amazing that stories reach the level of imagination when we see that some are demanding childbearing for two consecutive years and they are ignorant about these matters, even though our Islamic religion is the only religion that mentioned accurate information in sexual culture and the importance of sound knowledge Because of the healthy relationships that result from it and not as the West accuses us that our religion is a closed religion and there is no freedom to discuss, but what do we say when we see scandalous satellite channels that have begun to enter homes and establish themselves as a scientist in this matter, which made our youth receive a false sexual culture? The matter invites us to stand on this culture to know more about it and to educate young people and their parents about the importance of familiarity with it before the start of marital life, it is important for men and women alike, as it is better to start it in the young age and this is to educate young people about their sexual matters and to know the defect in it and how to preserve On themselves, in order to prevent the occurrence of several problems in childhood, which may occur in schools, streets, or between relatives .. «Riyadh» has taken upon itself this task as it raised this issue in this seminar to a number of specialists.
٭ «Riyadh»: As a prelude to this symposium, there is a focus among many young people that sex education is only practice, in addition to mistakes they make during marriage. What is sexual education in general?
Dr. Amr Gad: It is strange that the Arab and Islamic world is in a state of severe weakness in awareness of the sexual relationship, especially since the sexual culture we are talking about is completely different from the wrong and destructive instinctive culture that young people receive from some pornographic satellite channels on the Internet and other and from private blackening sessions With them, although our Islamic religion is the only religion that has been mentioned in his noble book accurate information about sexual culture and the importance of proper knowledge of it and the consequent sound sexual relations, and not as the West accuses us that our religion is closed and there is no freedom for discussion and knowledge, in the Noble Qur’an in Surat Al-Baqarah {And they ask you about menstruation, say it is a harm, so isolate women in menstruation, and do not approach them until they are purified, and if they purify themselves, come to them according to God’s command. God loves those who repent and loves those who are purified. In these two verses there is a strong explanation of the importance of sexual education, and that the Companions, may God be pleased with them, despite their extreme modesty, did not prevent them from asking the Messenger, may God bless him and grant him peace, which is the sound source for knowledge about sexual relations at certain times, and from the wisdom of the Lord of the Worlds that the response comes not from the Messenger. Prayer and peace directly, but the response comes from the Lord of the worlds directly to explain to them what they are similar to or what they asked about, then the verse comes in more detail about the sexual relationship and the possibility of its coming in many situations, but that it is in the legitimate position, so I tell young people that foreplay and relationship The emotional intimacy between husband and wife is very important, as it came in the Book of God (and give to yourselves), so that the relationship is not an animal relationship that depends on instinct without caring for feelings and preparing for them before starting them, as God Almighty mentioned in Surat Al-Nur (O those who believe, let him ask you for permission) Those who possessed your faith and those who did not reach the dream three times before the dawn prayer, and when you put your clothes on at noon and after the evening prayer, three shame for you. You do not have to do not have a wing after them. God has verses to you, and God is All-Knowing, Wise}. Here is another point that we add in the information and sexual education mentioned in the Qur’an about the existence of seclusion or the importance of the necessity of seclusion between husband and wife even without a sexual relationship, with the consequence of purity and purity of the relationship between them so that the sexual relationship is sound in the future, And all of this is mentioned in the Qur’an, despite that we are far from it, and unfortunately there are still no clear and well-referenced channels for young people or the general public to make a clear sexual education, even if we are now starting to pay attention and hint to many satellite channels on the importance of sexual education, and with The development of treatment for sexual disorders, many companies started to conduct awareness-raising conferences and scientific conferences to clarify the importance of this topic for people, and in recent years there has been a development in this field, as the Arab Association for Sexual Health was formed and focused on sexual awareness among young people and adults in the form of articles printed and published, Soon, God willing, a site will be issued on the Internet that has a well-known reference so that people can take from it what suits them and move away from the sites of bad credibility. And now the Kingdom has made an examination before marriage, and the importance of this examination is that the doctor sits with the husband and wife to explain to them some important matters related to sexual education before their marriage begins, to avoid the curse of the night of marriage and the problems of sexual disorders after marriage.
Dr. Ali Mahfouz: The concept of poor sex among many young people is determined by the wife not having sexual intercourse several times a day, and the husband believes that this is due to his impotence, and there are several reasons in this case, and the personal understanding of each person depends on the same situation from one person to another.
Dr. Ali Al-Obaid: As for sexual education, it is important for men and women, we may miss it a lot in the youthful milieu or young people, because they have everything related to sex which is a flawed matter and cannot be discussed, while sexual education really begins in the young age to educate children about Regarding their sexual organs, what is wrong with them, and how to preserve them, in order to prevent the occurrence of several problems in childhood, which may occur in schools, streets and among relatives, and when the child realizes that these genitals have no right to see them, then we protect the child a lot from the occurrence of problems that may occur For him, and for the age of young people, we see that there is no sexual education in the educational curricula, as they do not know the relationship between a man and a woman, and for many of them, while the sexual relationship is linked to an emotional and affectionate relationship, and without them a normal sexual relationship does not complete, so I say that it is important The presence of sexual health awareness that begins in an advanced stage of life, so that it will prevent many sexual diseases in the future.
Dr. Amr Gad: I think that parents should be educated in a sexual culture in what is required to teach them to their children and what should be taught at each age level according to its difference and not to be very intimidating to children from this subject that sometimes leads to sexual problems and disorders in the future, and from this point of view I see that there is It is a duty of doctors, scholars and sheikhs to spread awareness-raising methods for the different stages of the age without disturbing modesty and religion, and we find in Western countries there are references for every age group in terms of what this age receives from sexual education, so we have to broadcast this information to the public so that the father knows
What does he say to the boy without shame.
٭ «Riyadh»: Sexual education is a great responsibility. Do we hold it to the family, the school, or the media?
Dr. Amr Gad: Psychiatrists should bear the responsibility for setting the general structure of sexual culture. Then comes the responsibility of the media in spreading this culture to those who will carry it to the next stage in that, and there is a big difference between instinctive culture and sexual culture, as sexual culture is a purposeful scientific culture Legitimacy that takes into account life and the origins of religion. As for the instinctive culture, we completely reject it and it is one of the foundations of sexual disorders at the present time.
Dr. Ali Mahfouz: Everyone knows that our true religion is the religion of learning, understanding and mastery at the same time, and the first verse revealed in the Qur’an is the verse of teaching {Read in the name of your Lord who d, d man from a clot ...}, so education must start from home, Where the father accompanies his son and the mother is a role model for her daughter, therefore education must start from the early years in order to avoid mistakes with the multiplicity of satellite channels and the toxins they transmit .. From the earliest age of the son or daughter’s nails, the mother’s education must start with health education, then scientific culture, then sexual education. In turn, she transfers it in order to her daughter, especially since the culture that a child or child learns outside the home is a culture surrounded by toxins and in various forms, so that the child receives it from more than one source without knowledge of her health or error, especially since our true religion has differentiated between children in the bed at the age of seven, hence A child''s personality begins through his knowledge of himself, his organs, and more.
Dr. Ali Al-Obaid: The person responsible for sexual education is a number of bodies, where responsibility begins at home, then school, as well as social institutions. The issue of sexual education is not easy and needs a plan and total cooperation, as we hear and see many married couples who suffer and face sexual difficulties at the beginning of their lives. We may see both men and women in better physical health, and they may face great sexual problems and the situation may reach divorce, and this matter is not explained to people in general through the media, and therefore solutions to these problems must begin with education in school and then at home as well as sexual education. Before marriage is very important, that is why I see the necessity of setting up compulsory, not optional, and free courses set up by social institutions such as charities, universities and others. Sexual life between spouses and makes it easy and endearing.
Dr. Amr Gad: The picture that Dr. Ali Al-Obaid mentioned is an ideal one, and we need a longer time to reach it, and it will not be in the near future, since in the beginning of Islam we find that the Companions seek their culture and their questions about the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, the noble Sunnah, the sheikhs and the religious schola



